gonna get jumped by exs new gf

Okay so. I apologize for spellign mistakes ahah.

im in middle school, 8th grade. in 7th grade i started dating this one guy who i was just inlove with. I was his first girlfriend. We dated for around 5 months, and he broke up with me a week into 8th grade. 

It took me like 4 months to get over him, we broke up on september 15. It was a good relationship (i think?) but i cant really say that for sure as hes the only relationship ive taken seriously, all my previous 4 relationships only lasted about a month each, and all of which were with guys that either felt bad for me or just used me, so i dont really have experience on what a good, healthy, relationship would be, but i have a pretty good idea. But anyways, 

me being his first gf, he obviously was a little clueless and such, but he was such a sweetheart and was so loving; when he wanted to be. There were occasions when he would just be a dick or flatout ignore me, most notable being when he ignored me for 3 days because he was playing arkham knight. Now, i get that it mostlikely wasnt going to work out anyways, being a middle school relationship, but this being my longest relationship really made me get attached, and also i think i might have some form of borderline personality disorder, or maybe just severe attachment issues due to earlier life problems. Either way, i was emotionally attached to him. He became a part of me and honestly i couldnt stand to be without him or distanced from him, whether that be physcially or figurativlely. I loved him a lot. the first real fight that i remember was on out 4 month anniversary, when i was asking him to stop leaving me on opened or delivered for 12+ hours when I know damn well he was just ignoring me because he didnt want to respond. i asked him to atleast update me throuought the day or just say he needed space if he needed it. im not saying that i was the best girlfrined either, im sure there were times when i was unfair or maybe did stuff he didnt like but the thing with him was he would never communicate his feeligns to me. he didnt like this one guy who kept comign onto me? nothing. i was left to figure it out and while i was good at it, it jsut made the relationship more complicated and unhealthy.

forgot to add this but since the breakup hes been talking shit abt me and saying he dated me as an accident and a mistake. he called me a freak and a weirdo and said he never even liked me. 

This is aroudn the time i think he mightve cheated. I have no proof of this, but after we broke up he immidiently started liking his girl bsf. i had no problem with him having girl best friends or whatever, or rather i did but i never vocalized it because everytime i vocalized an issue i had with his behavior, i would get a fear of him leaving. but anyways.

me and him still talked, due to me trying to get him back and him still flirting with me and asking for nudes and such. we became friends w benefits and a constant cycle of him leading me on sayign he loved me and us calling every night and talking like how we used to. but basically he liked his girl bsf but they ddint date for whatveer reason. then i got my phone taken away because my parents found out about all this, or some of it. I tried to talk to him at school to tell him like hey this happened and my mom might tell yours. and he just ignroed me. he wouldnt look at me, he would give me short answers and make it extremely awkward like he wasnt just tellign me that night how much he loved me or how perfect i was. 

so i gave up trying to talk with him. he made contact once or twice but it wa just for nudes or mindless conversation about one of my friends. Then one day i really was just tired of feelign shitty all the time and missing him so i gave his jacket back. the whole interaction was just me putting it on his shoulder while trying to not cry and he called me a bitch and just cussed me out while i ran back into the school. so yeah, delightful!

now 2 weeks ago. i heard that this one girl, a known hoe, was going to get with him to make me mad. the thing abotu this girl, she dated one of my exs friends and cheated on him. she literally ONLY dated to CHEAT. Her words.

shes cheated on everyone shes dated. and like sure, have fun while your young ig, but persoanlly i dont see a point in dating like that. the way i see dating is if your not dating to marry then your dating for heartbreak. and i dont have a problem with just dating maybe because your lonely or whatever but its just not what i do. and this girl, told multiple people that she was gonna date him to make me mad. not because she likes him, but because she DOENST like me. her reasoning for her dislike of me? i talked crap about her. i didnt. 

what actually happened was her best friend was talking crap about her to me and i was saying "oh yeah she sounds like a hoe" . shes talked shit abiyt me so many times before this that honestly i shoudl be the one jumping her.

and like, sure, i shoudnt be agreeing with her friend, but this woman calls herself a hoe. if your calling yourself one shoudl you really be mad when other people start to agree? its like those girls on instagram who are like "im so ugly guys" then get mad when someone agrees. 

anyways. i find out that they started dating. and i went to the band room during lunch to hang out with the girls best friend whos also one of my good friends. i cried in there while i ate tamales and listneed to travis scott, so fun time. i got over it a few days later, and decided i was gonna date her ex for a day or two just to have a laugh. i dated this guy. for  3 minutes. 3 minutes. okay? guess what. she got pissed. she started calling me a pick me girl and saying i lead guys on ( i hang out with a lot of guys. im in wrestling and the majority of my friends are gay guys or guys who are dickheads and just keep me around as a punchign bag for their jokes). and plot twist, the guys sort of gf also gets mad eveen though she made it clear their not dating and never would. she made posts about me on an anonymous confessons page. but the ex told me bc hes like the least trustworthy person in the world. the one girl dating my ex got mad becasue i dated hers?? like okay...

but theres this dance coming up for valentines day, and their gonna jump me then. im not worried becaause the exs little how that hes dating but not really cant come because hse doesnt even go to our school, and the girl dating my ex is a fucking twig. unless they have other fuckin people who are gonna jump me then i think ill be able to handle it. the only thign im worried about is gettign kicked out of wrestling for getting in a fight, but if i can show my coach the evidence of them plannign it then i think ill be okay. 

remember the guy who got cheated on by exs new gf? well hes like one of my good friends as of now and he said that he d take care of anyone whos gonna try to jump me or fight me. and one of my exs best friends is also one of my friends and hes also gonna make sure no one jumps me or whatever. 

but uh, any advice?