you deserve to be loved

You deserve to be loved the way you love others.  You deserve to feel seen.  You deserve to sleep next to someone who isn't trying to calm your heartbeat or your passion or the way you appear in this world.  You deserve to be with the kind of person who loves all of your twists and doesn't try to solve them.  You deserve to love someone who won't judge you for healing your sadness, someone who won't blame you for your past.  You deserve to be chosen and never loved in half.  You deserve someone sure of you;  You deserve someone who stays.  However, you also deserve to be that person for yourself.  So please stand up for your heart.  defend it  Know when to walk away from those people who cannot love you the way you deserve to be loved, for a love bred for convenience is a love that caters to our need for attention rather than passion  a love that won't inspire you unless you turn around at 6am to embrace it.  Strive to discover fundamental love, the kind of relationship that motivates you to be a better person, the kind of intimacy that is rarer than available.  Until then be alone.  Because your ability to be alone, your ability to be your own home, your own foundation will directly reflect the way you love those people when they come into your life.  When you know yourself, when you stand up for your heart, you don't bankrupt who you are just to keep half-love in your life.  Love is less about filling a void, love is less about possession, less about dependency, and it transforms into something to be fully and deeply appreciated and felt because you are not afraid that  her loss will destroy you.  You are not afraid of being without it because you know you will always have yourself.  In your own business you will grow, you will find what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own breathtaking clarity, and when you meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be safe  of it because you are sure of yourself.  wait for that kind of love  Please, I urge you to wait for it, to fight for it, to strive for it, if you have already found it, because it is the most beautiful thing your heart will experience