Help: how to deal with having a fp

So recently I got into a relationship with the best boy ever! He's fantastic and we call every day, and I'm saving up to see him one day since he lives in the UK. 

I have a little big problem though. He is my fp.

I cannot stop thinking about him at all, no matter what. It's always him. If you don't know what a fp (favorite person) is it's not just having somebody you like the most. You obsess over them in an unhealthy way. I love him and I want this relationship to work for the both of us in a healthy way, and I don't want to lose feeling for him trying to not have him as my fp. I need help, does anybody have advice cause I'm stuck and I don't wanna be an absolute stalker.


PS, if ur gonna leave shit like ' oh, but he would be lucky to have somebody obsess over him' or 'oh that's just love' I will delete ur comment because I know what my feelings are and now I'm trying to deal with them.

plz help!!!!!!!1!!!!!!


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Johnny On The Spot

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I think that you should come to the UK please come to the UK I love you so much can you come to the UK please!!!!!!!J!"*!JI!H!JI


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sydneyskullz

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My advice is to try and distance yourself from him. Not too much, but to like a normal level of communication. Fill your time when your not talking to him with other things and try and think about the things you do and stop yourself b4 you do them, like "is doing x normal, or obsessive" and if it is, try to stop yourself or calm yourself down (ex: freaking out bc they haven't texted in an hour)


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Thank you sydney, im gonna try doing that.

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