Is Love Active or Passive

When it comes to defining love, is Love actively created, or passively found?

I had to think, when she told me that. It's not something to easily answer. Is the pursuit of love, meant to be stopped once you've found someone that you believe is a suitable partner. Is there something to be found between two people once the chase is over? I reached a point of question, wondering if, love can really just be there. I think if love is passive, I could never obtain it. I am an active creator, I am so used to having to build off of something, that I can't imagine someone just having it there for me passively. Part of me wishes in passive love, my legs have grown tired in this relentless pursuit, I keep running for and from, but never to. 


-𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕠𝕞𝟚𝕕𝕖𝕒𝕥𝕙