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recently i have been falling back to old patterns. My parents noticed but decided to go the wrong route and yell at me. i just want you to know even if your parents ae being a dick 2 you and making your feelings invalid, just know that it will be okay. find your people trust me. It takes time to find them so don't think its pointless because its not. Im proud of you all or whoever stumbles across this. i just want you to know that i understand. i dont have to  go into detail about my parents and neither do you to make your story heard. people dont need to know every detail, remember that. Only talk if you want to. i love you all <3 also good morning!


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As a parent, sometimes it is hard for us to understand what is going on in your minds. You have to sit us down, and have that conversation with us. Otherwise, we are going to say the wrong things. Please understand that most parents have no idea how to handle teenagers, even though we were teens at one point. Times have changed drastically since that time period, so you also have to be patient with your parents, as they are learning as well. What your parents do to you, is what their parents did to them. Please also remember that.


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yeah, i get that. i have had talks with them and stuff. They are just abusive, i wish they could change but they cant :/ also i totally agree with the parent thing of how they do what their parents' did. honestly I'm ready to break that cycle because they are abusive and i don't want to abuse my kids. Thank you for the advice though!

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