important!! (dni, byf and boundies)

im making a new abt me since im too lazy to make one

(the words in red and bolded are important please read them)

hi my name is Valentine/Lilith/Arachne whichever u preferer

im aroace

i use xenogenders

i use mirror pronouns!

im 17 so dont be weird

DNI

25+ sorry i just dont feel comfortable around u

under 13, you guys are too young to be on the internet

basic criteria such as homophobic transphobic ect

if your a neo/xeno anti

if u say slurs you cant reclaim

BYF

i have delusions so sorry if i act weird

i can be annoying and clingy

i have social anxiety so i dont normally start conversations or keep them

i have depression so i might not come online for awhile

!! i cant understand tone or social cues so if i make you feel uncomfortable with anything please tell me !!

BOUNDIES

please dont say the r slur around me even if u can reclaim it, it just makes me uncomfortable

please dont make fun of something i like a lot or just me in general im fine with jokes but if its getting like you mean it or getting a bit personal ill probably unfriend u

please dont use me as someone that you vent too, im fine with a few vents here and there but like all the time? no i already have my own problems to deal with

you are allowed to reality check me especially if it gets really bad ex: im about to do something dangerous cuz i believe im a specific character or i believe in something that's obviously a delusion, and or about to hurt myself because of those said delusions feel free to reality check me!

im fine with you saying "kys" or "die" if we are friends and we're both on that level of closeness but anything else i dont feel comfortable 

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ill add more later