is he a good bf or is that the bare minimum

OMFG . recently this past year i've seen girls praising their bfz for doing like ... what's expected. 

"omg he opened the door for me!" bare minimum

"he texted me goodnight!" bare minimum

"he's actually nice and isn't talking to other girls!" bare minimum 

THE BAR IS ON THE GROUND ATP! MAYBE EVEN BURIED . any time a guy does something hes supposed to in a relationship he gets tons of applaud cuz they've been doing so little for so long. suddenly a regular guy with common sense is someone's "dream guy" . when a girl does that it's always do better, u don't put enough effort into ur relationship . i do feel like it goes both ways, but it happens way more w boys .