I cant tell the difference between romantic and Platonic

I really cant tell the difference theirs two guys i kind of like but personally i don't think its right to have a crush on two different people because if you developed a crush on one guy and you really like that guy you wouldn't of developed feeling for another guy and if you have a crush on one guy then develop feelings for another one if you really like the second one you wouldn't still have feelings for the first. I act really close to my friends like cuddle them kiss them i don't care about that stuff but it makes it difficult to tell who i actually have a crush on and which is my guy best friend you know


p.s i think these blogs are just gonna turn into me ranting about my love life enjoy


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CalmStorm

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Sounds like there is a chance that you might be polyamorous. You should do some research into this, as well as the definitions between lust, crush, and the many different types of each. You could be getting them mixed up as well. Feelings are a bit more complicated than people realize, what you feel could be love might actually be lust, while a crush could be love or an obsession.

Good luck!!


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thank you so much i have considered being poly before but i did find out that i am not to be honest they kinda scare me i think its super cute for others but its not something i want for myself.

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You're welcome

What seems scary to you about it? I know it's not for everyone. I learned it wasn't for me either but it wasn't from fear, I tend to put 110+% into one person, I can't manage equal time between more than one person and I tend to become somewhat jealous. I'm more of a one on one individual when it comes to relationships.

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it's good to rant, because im nosy-


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