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-I'm neurodivergent (Autism and ADHD symptoms since early childhood) with C-PTSD but I have learnt to be able to control myself so don't be afraid to be real with me! Nowadays, the worst you'll see of me is oversharing or over-dominating conversations.(⁠ ⁠;⁠∀⁠;⁠)

-日本語分かってるなら、友にしたい!!!それやばく感じか?www

-I'm SE Asian, mixed Thai and Javanese. But I don't think race really matters lol (⁠ㆁ⁠ω⁠ㆁ⁠)

-I'm bisexual but have a preference for men cuz man big and single but I'm not looking for love on here (⁠´⁠;⁠ω⁠;⁠`⁠)

-I'm currently accepting art commissions, you can find more info it here: https://yumekawahanachi.neocities.org/commission

-Please don't be afraid to bring up sensitive topics to me whether in a satirical fashion or a serious discussion! I've learnt to cope with my trauma and face it in a healthy way!╰⁠(⁠⸝⁠⸝⁠⸝⁠´⁠꒳⁠`⁠⸝⁠⸝⁠⸝⁠)⁠╯

-Please be aware that I create and consume traumacore, slightly suggestive l0licon (legal age l0li characters only) and g0re art as a coping method. I feel this method is healthy because it's a coping method that doesn't harm or disturb others. You are free not to interact if this makes you uncomfortable! (⁠´⁠-⁠﹏⁠-⁠`⁠;⁠)

-If you're accepting that I consume the things stated above but don't feel comfortable looking at it, don't worry because I use TWs regularly as it's compulsory to me! I don't mind those who don't use TWs tho, I'm pretty okay with crazy shit taking me by surprise.

-Use of tone indicators isn't compulsory when talking to me but it is very appreciated because I have trouble recognizing tone.(⁠•⁠ ⁠▽⁠ ⁠•⁠;⁠)

-If you aren't okay that ur art is being used on my profile, feel free to dm me on here or on my Twitter/Instagram (@angel_hanachi) to take it off my page!

-Maybe take a look at my music while you're here! Also if you're a fellow vkei fan/bangya/bandoman, hmu! I wanna meet others with similar interests.

-DNI: None! Lol I'm open minded and as long as u aren't violently pushing anything onto me, I fw u! But exclusively promo accs are on very thin ice because I'm here to interact with people and speak my mind, not really find anything new to listen to/watch. (⁠´⁠-⁠﹏⁠-⁠`⁠;⁠)

-My trauma, while no longer triggering me involves situations of attempted r@p3, p3dophilia, physical abuse, verbal abuse, death threats, sexual harassment, gang violence. I do not get triggered by these topics anymore due to the fact that I've already gotten through it through a combination of professional therapy and art, but I may sometimes randomly have "reliving" episodes that don't cause me to be agitated or angry, but still make me feel extremely depressed and sad. So at times, I may not necessarily respond to messages right away. These episodes go away fairly quickly though, you should get a response soon. It has little to no effect on my overall social and working performance so I'm mostly fine with it.

-I'm here to make friends with anyone interested. If you aren't tryna be a predator, I'll welcome you with open arms. I will take knowledge of your views and opinions in respect of you whenever I interact with you. It doesn't matter if our views differ, we can always be friends in another aspect of our personality! I'm not here to argue or prove a point. I'm not here to wallow in negativity. I'm here to be friendly and put myself out there. I'm very open-minded and if something I say offends you, feel free to lmk. It's not so I will delete but so that I can understand what offends you and what to avoid when talking to u. I'll even place trigger warnings in my post titles for you to decide if you'd like to open it or not. I'm not going to miss out on some amazing people just because of political views or negativity. I'm here to be a friend! I can't force you to be my friend but I'm aways open if u wanna be! Please understand that! 🙇‍♀️


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Hostuu

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You have healed beautifully! Nice work


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thank you :')

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treux

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Hey, thanks for being so real and open about your experiences. It takes guts to share like that. I respect how you're not letting your past define you and instead, you're choosing to move forward with positivity and forgiveness.


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Thanks fam

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