what y'all think?

I think it's ok to be with someone romantically, and they're in love with you, but you're not yet. That's ok, right? Like i think it's ok. Because I'll fall in love at my own pace. And if I end up not falling in love that tells me the relationship isn't for me.

We've been dating for almost two years. And I love him so much. But I'm not in love yet. And I think it's ok because I'm taking my time. I wanna know for sure, I wanna make sure I'm in love to be in love. I don't wanna just fall in love without thinking about it, and then if we don't end up working out, I'll be so hurt. I guess I'm being selfish. Now he says he doesn't think we're special anymore because I'm not in love. I want to be in love I really do. I'm just not ready yet. Is that ok? Am I doing something wrong? Is it unfair to him to wait for me to be ready? I don't know. I'm lost.