month 4 without my phone bro

im not having a stroke or nun about not having my phone but like im worried about ppl texting me and then they think im ignoring them or my family going through my phone which they have done many times before. when i had snuck my phone back one time they took my passcode off and went through EVERYTHING. I had to put my passcode back on my phone and add another code to my apps that they dont need to be in. i dont have anything to hide but still. im gonna try to sneak the backup phone from my sister, saying that i need it for work which i kinda do