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Host intro + BYF/DNI (please read)

okay, so maybe I should've made this a while ago, like a month ago when I first made this account, or even just before BOTH of my headmates made one despite one being asocial and the other having shown up like 3 days ago, but whatever

hi! I'm the host of our system, the Madness Collective

I change names like clothes but you can usually refer to me as V, Laine, or Alice and that will work. I also will usually answer to any other name you've previously called me, for example, right now my name is Cups. in a week my name might not be Cups, but if you've been calling me Cups for a while and you don't know or remember my current name it's fine if you call me Cups 

my pronouns also change frequently, though xe/xem and they/them will generally be among them

they/them

I think they are very nice. I asked them if I can borrow their pencil. they told me that the house is theirs. they said they would rather do it themself.

xe/xem

I think xe is very nice. I asked xem if I can borrow xyr pencil. xe told me that the house is xyrs. xe said xe would rather do it xyrself.

if you talk to me on discord (the only major social media I'm allowed to have) my name and pronouns will be in my status, if they aren't please remind me

we are bodily a minor. don't be weird to any of us, but especially not those of us who are the same age or younger than the body. I have a complex relationship with time and age but I mostly identify with the body's age

I am extremely queer and an exclusionist's worst nightmare


BYF (Before you follow)

we will block you if you make us uncomfortable

please do not discuss other versions of Samael or Lucifer around us, if you worship, have a headmate of, or are Samael or Lucifer please do not interact unless you are comfortable keeping that part of yourself/your system out of conversation

we have ADHD and the symptom RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) hits us really hard if we perceive any sort of rejection. this isn't to say "sugarcoat everything" please don't actually, but if you aren't trying to get rid of us please try to let us know if you have to do something instead of just disappearing mid-conversation. we assume that we did something wrong and that you hate us now. we will take things personally. if you don't mean them that way PLEASE tell us. 

we are autistic and would appreciate tonetags, but don't require them

we have psychosis, if you suspect we are having a delusion DON'T TELL US IT ISN'T REAL. it usually makes things worse and it messes with RSD and feels really sh-tty too. if it is distressing us, treat it as a real situation and you can try to comfort us without invalidating our current reality. if it is a danger to us or to someone else you can talk us into waiting it out or not acting on our delusion but you don't have to. dangerous and extremely distressing delusions don't happen to us very often, so you probably won't need this information, but here it is if you do. 


DNI (Do not interact)

basic DNI criteria (queerphobic, racist, TERFs, MAPs/p*dos etc.)

support cringe culture

anti-kin

anti-xenogender

anti-neopronouns

anti-endo

proshippers

trans-x (trans-age, trans-race, trans-abled, etc.)

against informed self-diagnosis

exclusionists

kin/fictives/IRLs of the Listener (Skyrim)

if you're uncomfortable with religious and especially Satanic or Christian discussion


Feel free to ask if you have any questions, thanks for reading this long af blog post, we really appreciate it


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What's cringe culture..??


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the idea that harmless interests are "cringey"
like furries being cringe for enjoying anthropomorphic animals
or people who use rawr/rawrs pronouns being cringey

the idea is that if you're gonna make fun of people for enjoying themselves I don't really want you on my page

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