before you follow/friend | don't friend if

I think some people may think of a DNI list as "cringy" or whatever, but this is necessary for me. Basically, if these things apply to you, don't send me a friend request. Don't worry, I'm not going to post about this kind of serious talk or discourse or whatever frequently. This is pretty much the last time I'll bring it up. 

Don't Friend If:

• If you are pro any of these things: AO3 (Archive of Our Own, the website for fanfiction), shipping minors with adults/creating pornography featuring fictional p3dophilia/ inc3st/r4pe, or think that this doesn’t harm anyone. Especially if you are pro AO3 and misuse the words “purity culture” or “cult” to refer to people who are against these things. Comship/proship/freeship/whatever you call yourselves: BEGONE.
  
• You believe endogenic systems don’t exist, especially if you automatically assume all “pro” endos are endogenic and will fakeclaim any system you see who supports them, or say you don't support fakeclaiming anyone but fakeclaim endogenics and their supporters. “Why?” You will trigger my headmates, who’ve experienced everything mentioned in the third point below this and B) and you probably believe untrue things about endogenics anyway.
• These bullet points say “don’t friend,” not “tell me to k1ll myself,” “tell me I must be a singlet (I’m not) or otherwise fakeclaim me,” or “send me an unsourced Twitter thread to try to change my mind”. I am a grown man (who’s also the host of a system w/ DID), I am not discoursing with you. I am here to post like it's 2007. 

I'm saying "friend" specifically because this is a vastly different kind of website compared to Twitter or Tumblr or whatever, it's not gonna kill me if we happen to interact once in a forum thread. But don't send me a friend request if these apply. We are not going to be acquaintances/friends/I am not comfortable interacting with you a lot if these apply.. Probably best for you to block my account if any of these really upset you. I'm not getting into discourse with you about any of these, ever.

Before You Friend:

• I am 22, so be aware of this if you're not comfortable sending friend requests to people of my age
• I will probably not accept your friend request if your profile has rapidly flashing/strobing images or autoplaying music. I'm autistic and I get eyestrain very easily.

Please Friend:

• You're a critical inclusionist / rad inclusionist (I don't use these labels but seem to get along with people who do)
  
• You're another traumagenic who isn't anti non traumagenic
• You avoid getting into arguments online
• You make blinkies/web graphics
• You like Spamton <3

Thank you for reading and respecting these simple boundaries. Please remember that how you treat others always comes back to you.