dni + byf (will be updated periodically)

ngl this is basically a pet peeves post atp, but i stand by it

dni:

-general dni criteria

-under 14  (unless I add you first)

-anti-he/him lesbian and anti-multigender

-anti-objectum (yes, this includes plushum.)

-musical elitists and gatekeepers

-anyone who uses their neurodivergence to intrude on autistic spaces

-anti neos/xenos

-transmeds/truscum

-blood on the dancefloor/dahvie vanity fans

-amanda palmer fans

-sia fans

-jeffery star fans

-old tech/internet supremacists

-adding onto the last point, anyone who constantly reminisces on "the good ol' days" and believes older = better

-anyone who uses the r-slur, whether you can reclaim it or not

-people who get angry with slow responses

-furry haters    

-missionaries or anyone who supports them

-if religion is a main part of your account (no hate. just a lack of relatability)

-people who antagonize those with a personality disorder (yes, this includes narcissists and aspd and every other "evil" personality disorder. fuck off)

-if you believe "narcissistic abuse" is an actual thing

byf:

-i generally struggle with formulating responses to others (responses may be slow)

-i disappear at random for weeks/months at a time 

-i almost never message first

-i sometimes use unconventional, "pretentious" language (if you need me to clarify smth, let me know)

-i listen to problematic artists (it's practically unavoidable, don't pretend it isn't)

-i am friends with the block button and will use it without explanation

-i do use the term femboy in my profile, but i do not mean it in a weird way (i'm aroace). it's just a term that suits me and i think feminine men look nice.