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A place before winter


I will have to set out time to explain everything in great detail.  The truth is that we waited such a prolong amount of time to ask for help that we are now experiencing something I'd like to call a cluster fuck of problems lol.

Bad luck keeps rearing its ugly head and things keep breaking and it literally sucks ass. It's primarily focused on the problems of now and not how we got there. 


January 10th 2019 my mom passed away, which seems to be the catalyst of all the bad luck. After she passed my dad started to lose his mind temporary from grief which would cause him to call for my mom which she wasn't there unless it was spiritually. Than he would lash out and we would fight about really not important things. Like me throwing my phone on a cushion or something not realizing it has a phone case and the couch is so soft its hard to get out of it. 

During that time Cade was looking for a better place to live, he lived in an addition to a house thats about one hundred years old. His room's roof had started falling apart letting installation and wood and water get into his room causing mold and the outside to come inside. There were mushrooms and grass growing inside of his room. The whole house is falling apart but theres not much we can do about it since he has stated his parents won't accept the help. He says they're weird like that but my personal opinion is that we should still try to help them after we figure out our living situation. 

So my seemingly helpful ass gets looks everywhere for a place that would be suitable for my love. I looked on craigslist and facebook market place and yes before you throw it out there I knew the risk but everything at least on the surface appeared to be legit. 

IT WAS NOT LEGIT. In the time that Cade worked he accumulated about 10,000 dollars which we bought his new residence a 2004 komfort trailblazer, the guy said everything worked not everything worked I'd say about 50% of what he said worked didn't. He said it was clean and let me tell you this guys version of clean consisted of about over 60 mice carcasses and shit up to your ankles. It appeared to have spent it's entirety in a big field in California or something. It had visible water damage upon closer inspection. Which the guy maybe let us do about five minutes of inspection. If we had more time we could have told him forget it and I could have let Cade stay with me even if I had to sneak him into my house for him to stay.

Our health issues. Cade has a back injury as a result that twirled around his black blazer like a fancy ballerina and he also has Graves disease. I have a myriad of problems. I have epilepsy, eczema, asthma, and other nerve issues. Which causes me problems in keeping a jobs and Cade has to narrow his job options. I don't think we'll get out of this situation. 

I have to write some more but I don't have time at the moment to do so but this is part of the how there's more to it. If this isn't allowed please let me know and I'll delete it.


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