Why people cheat.

Remember back in school when you used to sit next to that person who used to always cheat on tests? No matter what, they'd ask you, "Hey, what did you get for number four? What's number four?" Did you ever think to yourself, Damn. Why are they always trying to cheat?" It's because they weren't prepared for the test. They never took the time to study, to ready themselves for what was about to happen. After realize that, you didn't have to question why they're you trying to cheat, because you knew. They're unprepared for the test. You didn't blame yourself. You no longer asked yourself, "Why are they cheating?" So why do you do the exact opposite in relationships? When somebody cheats on you, why do you take the blame and not fault them? Your partner was the one who didn't prepare to handle themselves properly when the relationship went through a test. Every relationship is going to be tested. That doesn't mean you've got to cheat! So when people cheat on you, understand that it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them not being prepared for the tests that relationships bring.