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i love my boyfriend  but its really hard to feel important when he follows lots of women who post half naked pictures, and when i tell him about it , it feels like he just pushes me away and tells me that he only has feelings for me. we've been dating for just over a year and a half and I've told him about it probably 5 times and he still has not done nothing about it and I'm kind of over it, i love him so much and i know he loves me but its hard to trust him when it feels like I've been ignored over and over again when i bring this up. i am okay with him having female friends but he just follows women who 1. don't have any posts 2. he doesn't even know them 3. they're over 18 and i feel like a lot of my crying could be spared if he just unfollowed the girls that just post their bodies from the 900 other people he follows. i feel so ignored and pushed aside. i wish i didn't have to ask for him to unfollow those girls. i don't have anything against those girls but i do have a problem when he just doesn't think about how i feel. i need to talk to him.


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I used to have a gf who had this issue before, honestly it’s just the male mind unfortunately it’s just in our dna to be attracted to attractive people, even you have this issue. There’s really not a way around it, in the real world he will see people this way as well and he will catch you looking at someone. The best way to honestly get over this is by just by quit being self conscious about yourself. He loves you and he’s with you because he found you attractive enough and interesting enough to date. you’ll be fine! Just little relationship things you gotta get over and realize it’s something you have to work on, on yourself to feel the best you can. Good luck !


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thank you! i talked to him last night and it took him a while to understand how i felt but we talked for a couple hours and we got it all fixed! he unfollowed the girls that i told him made me uncomfortable and then we played roblox so i think this was a win win

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There you go! Glad to hear it worked out 🤝🏽

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