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Well I ended up being unfriend today by a woman I met maybe a year ago through my neighbor. Unfortunately in this situation she couldn't separate between our friendship & her relationship she had with our neighbor. There were somedays we could chat & it goes fine. There were however days where she would bring him up. Ask me questions about him & complain about him to me. Keep in mind my husband & our neighbor are best friends. My neighbor has become a close family friend to us in general. So her complaining to me about him put me in a really weird spot. I was completely capable of having a friendship with her where he isn't mentioned & we just talk about whatever else. She however couldn't do that. The only way I would see her in real life was if she showed up at his house while we were there. After she would visit him she would later message me complaining about him & such. It just put me in a weird spot. I ended up not responding back much anymore to avoid the drama. Well I am a bit saddened by it, but at the sametime I am glad the disconnect was just as settle as her unfriending me. At first she really did seem like a good friend. It was after a while of us messaging back & forth things started seeming off.
There were times she would randomly send me messages & tell me to delete them. That made me feel weird. I stopped deleting after a while because something seemed off about it. She would say some odd things like, "I guess I can't see ya'll ever again." She would say this over her claiming not to see our neighbor anymore. That always felt weird to me & I would assure her that we could meet up somewhere or hang out in general not involving other people. Like have a girls day out or something. Her responses to that would seem off some. Idk, but basically I came across someone that couldn't separate our friendship with whatever was going on with her & someone else. Made me wonder if this really was a friend or was this someone trying to use me to get info about my neighbor from me. Well the thing is I didn't gossip about him to her. When she would bring him up I would eventually find a way to change the subjects & talk about something else. I don't feel in a friendship you should be walking around on eggshells so in a sense it works out. I guess a learning experience in general.
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