well she's not exactly my girlfriend. 

like, we've been datin' for some months now but she won't tell her mum we're a couple. 

my family knows we have something going on and they don't really mind,,,    but the other day 

my mom said what if she's trying to keep me as a secret?? 

that made me kinda feel sad since it has happened before...

do u folks have ever been in this kinda situation?? got any advice for me? I already love her, haven't told her tho, since she won't even call me her gf or partner or anything. we're supposed to be on a serious relationship yet I can't put her in any 'formal' label,,, 

so like, I'm confused...