Ghosted

I don't understand why people feel the need to ghost. Like why can't people...wait let me rephrase this. WHY CAN'T MALES be honest? Everytime i hookup with a dude and they tell me "oh i'm not gonna ghost you or i promise you we'll meet up again" only to ghost me. It's bothered me in the past but never enough to actually make a couple posts on it. I was just so confused...maybe i'm actually looking too deep into it.


I just feel like there's never an end to the rejection, the ghosting, the lying and the using and abusing of my body. I hate getting used for just my body it's not fair to me. I deserve to be loved like everyone else. i deserve to get the person i want sometimes. 

There was a guy i hooked up with on tinder and before y'all say anything yes i know tinder is an app for hooking up. i was on the app looking for a fwb until the end of the summer. but anyways, he picked me up and we hung out at his house and he lived literally not even 3 mins away which was perfect in my opinion. We do the do and immediately i noticed the vibe was off. i told him i knew he was probably gonna ghost me (which i probably shouldn't have said) he was like why would you have those assumptions about me...and then he was like one more episode and i'll take you home and like that was fine with me. But i noticed like i just felt like he didnt wanna meet up with me anymore. but anyways we had a whole conversation about ghosting and how it was wrong and he still proceeded to ghost tf outta me...like i'm tired of being used, played, tricked and ghosted by stupid ass dudes. when will it end?


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