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so me and my crush got together last tuesday so its been just over a week since we got together and i stuggle with VERYYYYYY bad overthinking(he knows this). weve been bsf for 4 yrs so its not a problem of not knowing eachother wll or anything but i just feel like we havent been as close as we were before we got together and i keep being scared that im being way too clingy and ive been trying to back off a bit so i dont seem annoying 2 him. i love him sm and logically ik he loves me but idk!!!! help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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rilakkgrl
you DEFINITELY need to communicate!! i had a relationship like this (although less serious) and lack of communication ended it. not saying this will happen with both of you but talking (irl would be much preferred even if uncomfortable) will definitely clear things up. don’t try to wait for him to try to fix it!! it’s a team effort and even if you want him to fix it you need to think about your overthinking and if you want to keep the relationship healthy and long, you have to take a big leap and talk. i wish u luck:)!! a small period of discomfort is much preferred over ending your relationship.
also about the clingy part, don’t assume you are being so! ask him his honest opinion on your affection towards him and how he feels about it. there is no such thing as too clingy until boundaries are set, and even then it’s just that. limits :) you don’t know how he feels yet, maybe he likes the affection and “clinginess” and you backing off might cause him to think something is wrong. kinda adding fuel to the fire yknow? communicate!!!
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this actually helped me so much thank u omg
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