Actually that was really awful

You know what? I think it’s actually kind of really shitty to bring up the conversation of defining your relationship with someone, tell this person you’ve referred to them as your girlfriend for a while (“as shorthand because it’s easier than explaining that we’re just dating but not a relationship yet”) and then 2 months later dump her because actually you want to be single for a while and you’re trying to process all this PTSD from a past abusive relationship and you “don’t want to become toxic to them” like???


You had the opportunity to put the brakes on this! 2 months ago! When you asked if we wanted to define our relationship!!!!

And don’t get me started on the fact that I’m pretty certain you never actually deleted bumble, even if you claim it would only have been for finding friends. We literally had a whole ass conversation 2 months ago about if we wanted the option for poly and we agreed we were non jealous and poly flexible.

Anyways I just really need a place to scream into the void. 


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l4pd0g

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gotta love romance. wash your hands of them and move on


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