Danny Elfman obsession, and how its affecting me.

I've had a full blown obsession with Danny Elfman for MONTHS now, Yesterday marked 5 whole months of just being obsessed over a ginger idiot, who plays in a band called Oingo Boingo, its so dumb yet I could care less. He's swag and I love him, but i'm scared that my friends are getting sick of me. actually, I know they are. So many people have dropped me because of it, and my ex boyfriend dumped me because of it, but he makes me so happy. I'm unsure what to do.