I hate when adults say “these are the best years of ur life” like they rlly aren’t. I mean sometimes they are but most of the time it’s all super confusing. Right when u hit puberty like everyone’s looks at u different. More expectations. We face a lot of broken friendships and relationships. A lot of times they scar us. We meet one person and think they will last forever. More like 7-8 months. Then that ends and it leaves us broken. Then depressed, lonely, unfaithful. We look up to adults. Our older siblings or parents. Maybe we don’t have our parents anymore. Maybe we are the older sibling. Now out younger siblings look up to us. We cant show how broken we are bc we don’t want the to too that side of us. The anger. The fear. Parents say we are to young to feel sad. Then why do we feel like this? So lost? Social media changing the way we see ourselves. Comparing ourselves to some blond girl. Or too some guy with good hair.
We cant open up to anyone bc we feel embarrassed after. Some cover their mouths when they laugh. Some avoid people looking at their side profile’s. They don’t like their laugh so they don’t laugh a lot. That’s ok though. We shouldn’t be insecure at all. But it’s hard because we look down at ourselves. We close ourselves in our rooms for hours. Take super long naps. We distant ourselves away from family. We don’t have motivation to do homework at all. Or clean our rooms when they r super messy. Or want to get up for school. That’s ok. We all feel that way. So why do people still say these are the best years of our lives. They are the worst. But they get better. We just have to sit through it. I love you so much. You are perfect and bright. Don’t compare urself to anyone please. Don’t listen to the negetive things people say. Instead use it at motivation to prove the wrong. You are worth so much. Live life no matter how hard. When u get passed it you will see how much u grew and changed. The sadness will be gone. You will find the ONE guy or girl. That one amazing true friend. I promise. Just wait please. I love you.
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