Hypocrites

Why are people so judgmental it's like everyone is scared to be who they are that they criticize those who can be. Or those who act like they can. I know I shouldn't be one to talk I can't be who I am but atleast I know that. Others have to find out the hard way, they have to go through something to find out. I just knew from the start because I'm in my head alot and I can't take a break from it. I just kind of want to stop guessing what people are thinking but I know that people can't be blunt. I don't know what I'm saying really at this point I'm just rambling.