GENDER IS SO CONFUSING???

So a while ago i just decided that i wasn't a girl anymore and it got really confusing?? I'm pretty certain im neither a girl or a boy but being nonbinary or agender also feels extremely foreign. It's like im just vibing with a question mark where my gender is supposed to be. I also first thought i wouldn't tell anyone that i didn't feel like a girl and just chill since its hard to explain it to people but they keep pissing me off even if they're mostly not doing anything wrong. Makes me wanna punch them when they call me a girl or group me as such. Like i had to deal with something like this when i accepted that i was queer but this is a lot harder?? I feel like im going to fall into a deeper rabbit hole if i keep thinking about this tbh.