Shifting

I really wanna shift but I just can’t seem to do it yet. If you don’t know what shifting is then I recommend searching it up so you know what I’m talking about. I want to shift to a dr where I can meet my gf irl or a dr where my grandma and bunny are still alive. They died way too early right when I needed them the most. If you have a shifting method or tips tell me plz!!!1! :((