what do i do

i got called a faggot (i am pan i can say it dont cancel me on twittah!!11!!) and told that i will go to hell and that nobody loves me because i am "an lgbt" by my friend's friend's friend, chris, he's friends with ari. i told ari and jon, and they did not care. jon didn't respond and ari said "hot". what do i do?!??!! should i care? ive been called a fag before but this time it feels different because he's said it multiple times, and if i leave the group chat then it feels like he won. its starting to really bother me ig. and jon has said fag like 5 times. *not at me, just in general. in front of me.* and hasn't apologized. i know that jon is a good person but he has to stop if we stay friends, it just makes me all bummed out.