Crazy Parents

PLease tell me if this makes sense. 
I was sick all week and I was busting my ass all day today to finish getting caught up on school and studying for TWO tests that I missed while I was out and I fell asleep. My uncle who I did not even know was coming, arrives and I'm still sleeping listening to my music, no one comes in and says hey your uncle is here. But the second that mama bear decides to come tearing into my room to wake me up and ask if I have said hi to my uncle yet and I say "No, I didn't even know he was here" She takes my phone, that I wasn't even on all day because I have been studying and tells me to do a bunch of shit and then say hi to him. I do and then she says take a shower (They do this when I get upset at them like it's my fault) and I'm like so I can't get my phone back until I shower? What the hell? then she says "Maybe I won't give it back at all" I'M ACTUALLY PISSED OFF. first you take it away from me simply for the fact that I was sleeping and you can but now your not going to give it back because why? It gives you joy to take things away from me even after I listened to what you asked me to do??????? I'm sorry WHAT?