Why can't we have nice things lol

So I've been out of the loop on music for like- three years- for the most part. 2020 really killed my vibe on a lot of stuff. To be frank, most of the music I listen to is the same stuff I listened to before The Great Panini, so I don't know many new bands. 
I stopped listening to P!aTD and FOB for the most part, which was hard since I had to surgically remove them from a lot of my playlists. Now I worry about getting into any Pop Punk/punk/alt music because I really just don't want to get my trust broken again. It's affected a lot of how I feel surrounding music, which was originally a massive coping mechanism for me. 
So the real question lies there: is there any good bands right now that don't have really really sketchy M1n0r-relaed activity goin on?? It's so frustrating to fall in love with an album only to realize I gave my listening time to some creepazoid.