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So I've been seeing this girl for about a year now (both 18). We met at work and became very close, hanging out every day talking all night etc. She is bisexual and i am a lesbian. There are definitely feelings for eachother. She told me she had a crush on me 1 month ago. Two weeks ago i went over to her house at like 2 am (she is up pretty late) and told her i loved her. We stood out in the cold talking about us and said it was official, we are dating. But she wont kiss me or hold my hand, she dosnt take me on dates and im always the one to set things up. i like romance and she likes when i take her places and buy her things. She is the more feminine one in the relationship but that dosnt mean i dont want somone to take ME out for once. I dont know what in doing wrong and im pretty lonely. Advice would be great!!!!
Girlfriend advice please!!!!!!!!!
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Buttercup :)
Communication! Talk to her about it and try to work things out. But genuinely if you arent getting what you want from a relationship and you guys cant work it out, leave. Don't stick around because you want a relationship or because you love her it'll hurt more in the end if you stay and nothing changes. As for the physical affection issue it might be internalized homophobia as i had a similar experience with a girl who no matter how much she liked me or another girl her own internal issues wouldn't allow her to pursue that especially physically.
Thank you this was really helpful for real. i just dont want to see her go :(. but like you said she is from a pretty homophobic family
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i would talk to her about it and communicate how ur feeling in a respectful way :]
Thank you so much :)
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