my boundaries

1) Messaging: Im fine with randomly texting me, i might not answer for whatever reason (from being busy to simply not feeling like talking to someone). If u want to start the conversation as if we were already friends, ill be ok with that! I'll probably answer more enthusiastically than if u just said "hi" so id say it preferred to talk to me freely. Ive a little problem with ghosting due to my adhd, since sometimes answering texts feels like a chore; dont take it personally if i dont answer right away or simply never do!

2) How to refer to me: I am a 100% ok with petnames if its all platonic and ur being nice. What i mean is...lets say we're chatting and i compliment u, and u answer with "thank u sweetheart!" im fine with that. however using too many petnames (like randomly being like "hi doll" or "how are u darling?") could make me uncomfortable. ill probably tell u if im getting umcomfy tho, and if u dont respect that im going to stop replying and maybe block u.

My name (Luna)✅

Variations of my name (Luni, Lu, Lunita)❌

Ciel and any variation (Cielito, Cielcito)✅

Madam Whiskers (love this one)✅

Darling/Dear✅

Sweetheart ✅

Doll (if ur being nice and platonic)✅

Girl/Girlie✅

Dude/Bro/Man (if non gendered)✅

Babe/Baby/Babes❌

Miss/Ma'am/Madam/Lady(gender euphoria yass!!)✅

I am also not afraid of blocking. at all. if i dont like u im gonna block u lol sorry not sorry but this is my house and i choose who i let in and who i dont

1) Dolls. 

ok thats it

(dont ask why i dont want to see dolls or talk abt them, its none of ur bussiness<3)

thats all for now! i might add more stuff as time goes on