Listen, I do fairly good in school. But it's just the people I CANNOT stand. So I'm in a friend group of maybe about 7-8 people. Recently however, They've Sort of pushed me out and made me feel unimportant. I always feel like I'm nagging them about something. Also, Two of my friends , (we shall call them... Merlin and Sam) were hanging out with one of my other friends (we'll call them uhh Bug) saying that they were 'Best friends" and the best Trio. what's worse about it is that I introduced Merlin and Sam To Bug :(. The rest of the people in the friend group are ok but I don't think that they like my Clinginess. Me and my friends don't share many of the same interest's other than music, and they act bored whenever i tell them out something exciting with something I like. Idk what to do, bc I don't want to lose all of them and sit alone at lunch again. I feel like I should also mention most of these people are slowly becoming more Popular but I'm not. I just don't know what 2 do :/. Any Advice?
School Suckz :(
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Micah <3
I feel like I’m being clingy alot too, my friends have different boundaries and sometimes like space, and they understand I’m the opposite. We’ve learnt how to balance it out though, and if you can’t figure that out with your friends maybe they’re not the right group for you. Plus if they’re ignoring you and being uninterested while talking to you, they’re not worth it. I think you should try finding new friends, even if it’s hard for you it’d be worth it.
Anyway I’m here if you want to talk :)
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dreamyskiez
hello ! im not too good at advice but i do want you to know you’re not alone here. i’ve gone through this same thing quite a few times. i know how upsetting it is, but you need to remember your own worth. just keep trying to find other people, or if you’re comfortable, maybe try to talk to them about how you’re feeling. if they are actually good friends they’ll listen. if not, then i think it’s just your time to find other people to spend your time with. people who recognize how cool of a person you are :))
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Thank you!! :D
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