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Fictionkin v. Fictives

This is part of a series of posts about the concept of kin and its history. For a more comprehensive explanation of what kin is, check here. A glossary is also included at the bottom for convenience, as not all terms are immediately explained. This post was written in a Google Doc and later posted on 22 Feb, 2022. Happy twosday!


It was last updated on 05 Aug, 2024.

What changed: Unlisted entry. It's been two years, folks.


Ever since the fictionkin boom on Tumblr back in 2014, ‘kin has been conflated and sometimes linked to OSDDID. In reality, they have nothing in common, but the amount of people uneducated on DID in the kin community is nigh infinite, and the people who want to be right is even higher.


Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD) until 1994) and Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD) (formerly known as Dissociative Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (DDNOS) until 2013), specifically OSDD-1, are dissociative disorders caused by repeated childhood trauma before the age of about 8. An older and dated explanation of DID is that the amount of trauma the person went through as a child ‘shattered’ their psyche, and I personally think it’s a good enough example for the layman - however, the reason repeated childhood trauma causes this disorder to happen is because the standard integration a child goes through as they grow up is halted.


A characteristic trait of both of these disorders is ‘multiple personalities’ - the proper term for these personalities is ‘alters’. DID and OSDD-1 are almost the same, but handle things like amnesia differently: people with DID tend to experience more blackouts, while people with OSDD tend to experience emotional amnesia (a la ‘that alter experienced that, not me’).


An introject is a type of alter that is based off an outside figure. These alters sometimes will see themselves as the figure, and sometimes will not. While introjects are often based off real people (such as abusers or people the system may idolise), they are also often based off fictional characters for similar reasons. In younger online communities, fictional introjects are more often than not referred to as fictives.


Fictionkin is a term used to mean someone (or a group of people) who are kin with a fictional character. What this means is that fictionkin believe themselves to be a reincarnation or parallel incarnation of a fictional character.


A key difference between these two (aside the obvious) is that OSDDID cannot be spiritual (spirituality is not covered by the DSM and it’s usually specified that the symptoms must come in a sober, not spiritual state) while fictionkin almost always is. I believe the dawn of ‘endogenic systems* on Tumblr happening around the same time made it a bit difficult for people to tell the difference, because at the time a lot of information pertaining only to those systems was also said to pertain to DID (which is wrong).

*A system without trauma that does not claim to have OSDDID. There’s a lot more to it, but that’s another topic I don’t want to go into.


I’m not sure exactly how common it was, but some ‘kin would appropriate terms used in system communities for convenience when talking about certain things. Here are a list of terms I’ve seen and been told have been used by kin communities erroneously:

  • Fictive: An alter who is wholly or in part based off of a fictional character.
    • How it was used: Kintype.
  • Front: The alter in control is in front, or fronting.
    • How this was used: I am more connected to this kintype right now. The proper term would likely be kinshift.
  • Switch: A different alter comes to the front.
    • How this was used: I’m starting to feel more connected to a different kintype. The proper term is shift, used as a verb.
  • Co-con: Two alters are fronting at the same time, with varying dominance.
    • How this was used: I feel somewhat equally connected to two kintypes at once. I’ve seen people use the term co-shift to explain this.

There seems to be some argument on whether or not ‘selfhood’ is a system term. I don’t know anyone who uses the term to refer to anything other than something like an ID, so I think if you refer to your higher kintypes as that, you’re fine.


It should be noted that having DID or OSDD and being kin are not mutually exclusive - usually it’s these people that are asking others to stop using system terms, as they’re more aware of which ones are being appropriated.


In new-age kin communities, fictives are often weaponized and used as a ‘gotcha’ in arguments over things like doubles and delusional attachments. They are often listed as exceptions on people’s carrds if they’re uncomfortable with doubles (regardless of if they kin or believe themself to be delusional), even though fictives aren’t doubles of anyone who kins.


I believe these people miss one fundamental thing: not even fictives have a 100% chance of believing they are whatever fictional character in the flesh. I’d argue the majority don’t, and the minority probably do because of being encouraged by these kinds of communities. Not to say there aren’t outliers on either side, as there most certainly are - this is mostly personal conjecture.


A friend of mine stated that he thinks some people misunderstand it as a form of kin and use it as a way to kindate. I’ve seen something like this, though usually with younger systems in less than optimal environments. (And usually it has nothing to do with kin, which makes me wonder just what in the hell people are up to nowadays)


If you, the reader, are someone with OSDDID and have one or multiple fictives in your system, please be wary of what you read on the internet - there’s a lot of misinformation going around, and it can be harmful to fictives who are going through identity issues.


One of the most glaring pieces of misinformation I've seen is that fictives can have canonmates. This goes off the understanding that fictives can have memories of a past life, which is partially true - however, these are called pseudomemories, and are not at all the same as kin memories. Pseudomemories are false memories any alter may or may not have about a 'life before the system' or other similar situations (headspace memories would count under this). However, these memories are more often than not symbolic, and are fundamentally not real, no matter how real they may feel. Canonmates are thus impossible and it's extremely dangerous to say otherwise.


SOURCES
Another good place to look into DID is Multiplicity&Me, a patient and practitioner who covers her experience with DID and recovery
Experiences in the 'kin community come from me and a few friends' observation, so feel free to take it with a grain of salt.

GLOSSARY
KIN TERMS
  • Kin: Believing that you or your soul is a reincarnation of something
  • Fictionkin: Kin, namely with fictional characters. Formerly known as Otakukin/Otakin
  • Kintype: Whatever you're kin with (eg foxkin)
  • Kinshift: Feeling more connected to one kintype than another
  • Co-Shift: Feeling connected to multiple kintypes at once
  • Selfhood: 'Literally me'
  • Kin memory: Often shortened to kinmem. These are the memories one may have of their kintype (can also be called 'past life memories')
  • Double: A double is someone who is kin with the same character as someone else. Some people don't like them, others do, most people don't care either which way
  • Canon: Your specific past life
  • Canonmate: Someone from your past life specifically. If you were Goku, this would be your specific Vegeta
  • Kindating: Entering a relationship with someone solely because you're source/canonmates
  • New-age kin: What happens when you don't know what you're talking about
  • Delusional attachment: What happens when you give new-age kinnies the DSM
SYSTEM TERMS
  • OSDDID: Term used to refer to both DID and OSDD
  • Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID): Dissociative disorder characterized by 'multiple personalities' and blackouts
  • Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD): Dissociative disorder characterized by 'multiple personaltiies' and emotional amnesia
  • System: A person with OSDDID
  • Alter: A 'personality' of someone with OSDDID
  • Introject: Alter based off outside figure (eg abuser)
  • Fictional introject: Introject where the outside figure is a fictional character
  • Fictive: Non-clinical term for fictional introject - I believe this was coined by endogenic systems, but is used by everyone
  • Endogenic system: 'Systems' who claim to not have trauma or OSDDID - it is not good practice to use the system term outside OSDDID, but I don't believe they have an alternative
  • Front: An alter in control of the body is fronting
  • Switch: When a different alter comes to the front
  • Co-con: Multiple alters are fronting at the same time (usually two)
  • Pseudomemory: Memories of a life 'before' the system - usually symbolic or referencing real life experiences


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