friend is a cheater!!!!!???????

at a loss for words 

today my 'friend' (ill call them A) was freaking out at lunch and i was like yo u good? and they were like no im telling my bf's gf that we're dating.. and i was like.. What? and A was like yeah my bf is dating this girl. and in my mind im like are they poly??? so i ask and THEY SAID NO. i was mind blown!!! i was like does she know/?? and A said no and i was like when are you telling her?! A said next period, then explained that they( A and boyfriend{B}) had been dating for over a year WHICH MEANS THAT THE GIRL (C) HAD BEEN CHEATED ON FOR OVER A YEAR WITH NO KNOWLEGE!!!!!!!???? i felt so bad for C bc 1, C and B's relationship is a freshman and senior respectfully, and 2 they had been cheated on BY C'S OWN FRIEND. thats right A and C are "friends". I told A what happened is completley wrong and they shouldnt have done that and A said they knew, which is why A is telling C, and is going to ditch B and hope C does too. 

But damn! wth!!!!!! 

still sort of astonished my friend (a) would do something like that bc they (a and bs relationship) seemed so happy all the time, i didnt even know they were a homewrecker. even the age situation is funky.  its some type of hollywood movie situation!!

anyways i was definitley humbled today. i value my own boyfriend very much and definietly made me think about my own choices (even tho i know i dont cheat and he doesnt either). 

gosh i hope u guys think about this too,, its not hard to date people who arent dating anyone !