why does it feel like gender is a smoke screen battle?

Remember the age when you where very young, prior to puberty.

There's no judgment of the opposite sex, young boys and girls where ally's.

Men and Women put into chambers by the smoke screen gas-lighting once innocence lost fabricated by a hierarchy of the sexual market. 

Hear the cries online of men who lost all self respect and feel lost in this world.

Hear the stories permeating misandry.

Fatherless generation who take on the ever changing climate of identities, trends of self.

I remember a time where pronouns weren't a thing, and insults were more blatant.

No moral stance here; observe the changed culture.

Shock and gore, toxicity ought to be traded for sensitivity, homogenized diversity, branded inclusiveness? But why? 

2016 wasn't too far ago from 2019. The 20th century in it's second decade, felt fabricated, as though a shift in the matrix was made. 

In nihilism, and in scale it is what you make it.

My one and only stance is simple, reunite kinship between the sexes.

See women as only human beings, maybe even with the fascination that once was of romance before pessimism stripped away my dignity.

Some naysayer might see this and feel an impulse,  but trust me brothers and sisters.

We have been stolen from our true identity, and it's been politicized even.

There's no competition, no trauma if you let go.

If you can parent you inner child and accept the opposite sex as your ally you will feel clear and renewed,  don't let a stigma or the death of god undermine the self.

We all just want to be loved, love is effortless and happens. It just is.