complaining

okay so tell me why i have these friends, theyre pretty cool and we have similar interests and ive been friends with one for my whole life and the other a little over a year. im gonna call the one ive been friends with my whole life marcy and ill call the other leaf. me and marcy have always gotten along until a few months ago i found out they were talking crap about me behind my back calling me fat and other names.we became friends again after a breif apology. but fast forward to now we ended up getting leafs discord since we had been friends on roblox for a while and now we talk to leaf often.leaf seems pretty cool on the outside but when you get to know him hes honestly really mean like one time we were talking about cats and he asked if mine was bipolar and jokingly i said "my cats not biplor but i am" and then he started laughing at me and said "chat is this aura?" mind you im diagnosed bipolar so i feel that im allowed to say something like that plus i was very clearly joking. im not sure if anyone else would call that mean but personally i would.sorry if this doesnt make sense but i just wanted to rant a little bit. if you feel the need to then you can give me feedback and lmk ur opinions.