About my ex best friend

(Sorry if I have bad grammar)

This is a story about me and my ex best friend and how much I generally hate this bitch. 

5-8th grade. 

She’s gently one of the most disrespectful hoes I ever met. 

We call her red for the story. 

Me and red met all the way back in fifth grade. We met by her sitting in my spot on the bus and we introduced each other. And since then we hung out. She’s very friendly and nice and I didn’t think anything of her otherwise. 

We would vent, understand, comfort, play, or other normal best friend things to do. 

But as over the month, started to go by she started getting very weird. And when I mean by weird, I mean by disrespectful, pick me, and generally just very horrible. 

And it started to get to the point where I didn’t want to vent to her anymore because if I said anything about my day or if another person said about their day or anything about their past, she would try to double down on their pain and say that her life was worse or that she went through worse than them. And it was very disrespectful and it hurt a lot. 

So really I just stopped venting and when people would vent to me, I would make sure she just wasn’t around. 

She had a very big boy problem. And I mean way too big boy problem. 

She’s very picky into the point where I mean, she would point out insecurities just try to make herself look uplifted than the other girls and just put them down in front of boys only. 

Like her interest became more rubbish and tomboyish when she was around boys, or she would just try to be all cute in which I don’t think that’s really a big problem to be honest, but it’s the fact of her being very rude and pointing out insecurities, it just didn’t need to be addressed, especially in front of boys or people you’re just not comfortable with. But again, she would only do this to girls in front of boys. 

She had a lot of boyfriends too. And she talked to me a bit about her history of dating, and she said even at her old school, she dated a lot of the guys at our school. Some of them were older. Some of them were younger. And she said her total boyfriends were probably 25 or more. She just didn’t really count but around that. I was shocked. I didn’t try to judge her though, because who am I to judge. Until she used me to break up with her boyfriend. To get with another guy and to cheat on him to get with another guy. She would do this very repetitively cheating pattern. And mind you she was in fifth grade. 

And she starts to get very touchy. Especially with me even though I’ve told her that I did not like hugs. I had a big boundary and in that hole was physical touch. Now I don’t mean accidentally bumping into me. I just don’t like being touched purposely. And this is where she would start to hug me on purpose where I even just begged her not to do it and she would do this even when I wasn’t even hugging her back. I would just stand still like very stiff because again, I was very uncomfortable with this even though she just did not care.

She’s getting very mean to the other girls to the point when we were role-playing a game as a joke of mean girls and totally surprisingly she was Regina George. She actually had a real burn book. But I had told her not to use it because I didn’t wanna get in trouble and I didn’t want her to get in trouble and I didn’t want any of the girls who thought this was a role-play to get in trouble. She was mad at first, but she just said OK whatever and she just never brought it back. But it was a real burn book with real people real photos real names and absolute shit talk. And most of this shit talk wasn’t real. She just said that she just doesn’t care. She just doesn’t like them. And some of them didn’t even do anything to her. She just didn’t like how they looked. So she was a real bitch.

This is when I really stopped talking to her after an incident had happened. Even though I probably should’ve stopped talking to her a while ago and I really wish I did. She had made this weird noise a gremlin noise. This was not her real voice. This is just a noise she made on purpose to sound like an elf or a gremlin, and I had said that I had said that she sounded like a gremlin. And out of goddamn nowhere where she hit me. And I mean very hard on the head. So and response I hit her back. And she started crying…. She tried to text her mom. But I told her that if she wanted to get her mom involved with this, she needs to realize that she hit me first and that her mom has actually nothing to do with this. It’s just me between her. So she didn’t text her mom, but she said she decided to tell one of my friends who had tried to confront me until I told her the real situation. Thankfully, my friend had to believe me more than red because my friend didn’t even like red because she had really big beef with red due to the pick me ness. 

So after the incident, we really didn’t talk anymore and an in sixth grade there isn’t very a good memory there. It’s very vivid. I do remember more of the end of sixth grade.

She never had a lot of problems like physical wise. She obviously had some mental problems, but physical wise, like she didn’t have any fainting or like any problems in those genres. 

But I don’t know where she automatically has this random fainting problem. Now I’ve only heard her fainting ones and then I’ve only seen her fainting once. So two times I guess.. and none of them are real, nor were they jokes. Now I would’ve thought when I heard about the first one about her fainting it was a joke. She did it at band practice, and she was accidentally laughing while she did it like trying not to smile while people were literally freaking out and checking up on her. And I thought maybe she was just joking. Until I was outside of the classroom because we had an extra minutes before class started. And me and my cousin were talking. And this boy like is walking towards the classroom while red is coming very out of the classroom. And as soon as she sees him, she faints or whatever she wants to call it. Right into his arms. You know he catches her and me and my cousin turned around and just laughed because it was ridiculous. The faint was horrible and everything and she was even saying that her faint was real and she’s a fainting problem now like she was trying to convince it so bad. But when we saw it, it was horrible. It was like one of those cartoons, where you even have your back of hand on your forehead. 

Oh, in mind you at this time she had this crush on this guy. She also had a boyfriend. And no, he didn’t know about this crush. 

Now red did try to talk to me though I never really responded. Morally because the conversations went like this. “you know, I think we would make a great couple.”

…girl-WHAT. 

She would say those things to me even though being well aware again, I had a boundary with her that I didn’t like that stuff. Mind you, she said this stuff in front of her boyfriend to me. And me and him would just look at each other because it’s very awkward how she was just like this very flirting person and she wasn’t naturally flirty. Like she didn’t have a flirting or a natural type of charm. This was just straight actually out of her head and a thinking process of flirting.

She would soon cheat on her boyfriend for that guy she fainted on. 

That’s really remember about sixth grade. 

Now onto seventh grade. 

Seventh grade she got a lot worse, not even better. 

Her cheating got worse, her trying to talk to me got worse, and she started getting into stuff like weed and smoking apparently. Though the only thing I actually know is that she vaped I don’t think she’s ever done weed because when she said she did, you can tell when a person’s on weed or does anything she said she’s done and she fucking looks normal. But I mean her vaping was really bad. I mean she would like even just pick up vapes from the floor and smoke them, I mean, that’s where she usually got her vapes. Sometimes she got them from her older friends.

Now I’m not gonna go into all details of some of the stories. But here are some other other things she did in seventh grade.

1. Allegedly, she dated her second cousin.
2. She also cheated on her boyfriend to date a 16 year-old
3. She would cut herself and show it off to others like an accessory and most of the cuts weren’t even real or were accidental
4. She would tell teachers, even when they were trying to be nice to her and actually teach her. She would tell them that the schoolwork wasn’t important that she wasn’t gonna use it in life. Mind you, the teacher was very nice to her.
5. She started having sex, apparently actually she started having sex a while ago, like before sixth grade, but apparently she did it with her boyfriend. Again, allegedly. 
6. She would be nice to you in your face and then talk shit behind your back and I mean she did it to all her friends friends
7. She broke up with one of her boyfriends and then got with a new guy within six days
8. She would hug me and tell me that she loves me and even try to drink out of my water bottles and stuff, just very sexual towards me also for no reason

That’s the most I can remember from seventh grade. Now eighth grade where we are now. And if you thought it got better, you was wrong.

Funny thing is she actually broke up with her boyfriend, her new one, of course. 

Anyways to start. 

She has been hugging me, and then telling me that she loves me and when I don’t say it back, she will say that I hate her and blah blah blah. She’s also been just randomly hitting me again because for some reason, the teacher decided to fucking make her sit by me. And also, she slapped my butt and it was really weird. We is not friends. And she just did that to me. She didn’t even ask me if it was OK she just did it. And when I had asked her to stop hitting me, she just ignored it. She was like no. She also called me a Beaner. I told her that it was a racial slur and that she’s saying that to me because I’m Mexican and all she said was OK and then kept on saying it to me. She said she has autism and she explained that she got her blood tested, and that randomly now she has autism, which is an incredibly disrespectful because I have a sibling with autism and that’s not even how that works. You can get blood tested for autism like a gene pool, like for a heart disease, you can get blood test tested for that and if you have a gene pull of that a very high one, that does not mean you have it, but that means you can pass it down to the next generation of you, like son or daughter. And I know this because again I have a sibling who has autism and my mother had gotten test before to see if she had a gene pool and yes she did, but we are not aware if she has autism or not. But red doesn’t seem to understand that, I’m just gonna let her run to think that she has all doesn’t even though we’re not sure of that. She does not know that it’s an actual test, like them looking at you to see what you did to react to things, how you play how you interact with other. And if you were our verbal, they might ask you a couple questions. 

Another thing she’s been trying to say that she’s been smoking weed and that she’s high off her rockets in class. Her eyes are white as fuck and her pupils are perfectly fine. And she looks very normal. Like not a fucking single thing. And she’s been trying to act stupid to like get the act that she is high. But like girl it’s embarrassing. And now she is talking to the point on our bus he’s like 16 but he looks like he’s like 32, which originally I thought he was like 23, but that’s not the point the point is that she’s just been flirting with him and stuff, especially after her and her boyfriend broke up, even though when she hugged him is very more sexual than friendly. She even talked about sucking dick in front of him, mind you she had denied having any sexual intercourse with anybody, but then of course, right in front of him she was talking about sucking dick…girl what the fuck. 

I don’t know, but she’s just so fucking stupid and just a bitch. I really hate. I’ll keep you guys updated though if anything else more happens with her.