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Are breakups truly that bad? romantic wise I mean
I ask this in a genuinely curious way,so if I come across rude I sometimes just say things bluntly or "the way it is" though that's really just my perspective.
Never been in an actual relationship,or anything romantic though I've had my suspicions of people online "liking me" by that I mean more like they enjoy the attention,knowing what my type is,who I'm into and all that stuff. I don't mind talking of stuff like that or sex,I am curious after all.
sometimes I'll see one of my friends posting how "oh I miss this guy,I see him everywhere,his initial" and I kinda cringe and get the urge to tell her "girl get over it he's just a guy -_-" (like that one hades scene in Hercules lol)
I can imagine breakups being a painful memory wether it be with friends or romantic/sexual partners so I cant just tell someone to forget about it and smile cuz its over or sum.
Id like to know how people dealt with these breakups,did you accept it and focused on yourself and moved on? did you sob uncontrollably and put your health at risk? a mix of both?
How are you now? are you happy for them,or yourself?
as I said,never dated so this all come from a stupid curious mind :b
I think crushes can be simiilar so if that's how your experience is I'd like to hear too! I've had my fair share of crushes too :b
KK that's all fr this time,hopefully next week I make that blog about addictions like I said I would T^T
-D <3
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kiki ★
for me its based on the person ig, never been in actual relationship too but i had my fair share of crushes and talking stages. i'm someone who gets attached easily and that has always been my struggle fr T^T.
there was this guy who i talked to for about a month, and we became close instantly bc we had so many things in common. he would always text me, update me, and ask to hangout somewhere. at first i was very cautious but then i started to break my walls bit by bit, and then when i kinda started having feelings, he randomly ghosted me lol! few days later, i found out he's been chasing his ex (or someone he used to like idrk) lmaoo
i was extremely upset about it for a month or two, i admit i cried a few times but now i'm just lowkey mad at him and focusing more on myself too <3 i think the thing that upset me the most was him throwing away our friendship just like that (as someone with a fear of abandonment) and then leaving me out in the dark thinking that i did something wrong haha
Yeahhh I get THATT and stuff like this is what makes me wary with who I crush on and shi T^T
ngl sometimes I'm scared of getting close to sum1 especially online only cuz I may technically feel sum attraction and even if that's true its prob the small aro spectrum in me only liking the attention or idea of a relationship but never actually wanting 2 b in one. Had I not known what unlabeled is I'd def go by agromantic instead.
Im glad you focused on yourself after,that's such a great thing 2 hear! :D
by Dianne🩵🌧; ; Report
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i don't really know if it's common, but like... i never got super upset at any breakup.
i didn't even feel bad for the other person at all.
(granted, they all sucked. terrible, horrible people.)
might js be a "me-thing" tho.
or maybe i've never been invested enough to be really upset about anything. life's all sunshine and cotton candy when you're a retard ig.
Im surprised this isn't a normal reaction from many people. I do know that some are over the top typically from the person who sucks but like yeah no I think even I wouldn't be all that upset.
more like "ah well shi guess that happened...anyways my characters-" mayber if it was long term I guess?
sorry to hear they sucked,least its over now.
and I guess that's fair lmao,now I crave cotton candy lol T^T
by Dianne🩵🌧; ; Report