I’m fat, so what?

Hi people, I just wanted to talk, I am fat, not like morbidly obese but I am definitely not skinny, also I don’t consider myself really pretty, just decent kinda, and a few years ago this was something that really made me insecure as a person cause for some reason society really treats like shit fat and ugly people. 

Now I think different, is not like I suddenly don’t care about what people think, obv sometimes it’s hard to cope with it, but I realized is not my problem, society shouldn’t expect me to be skinny and pretty as to be worth basic respect and kindness you know? So now I think of it as a filter, if your someone that won’t treat with respect a fat person why would I even want to be near you? 

Also I realized I have many qualities, I speak 2 languages fully which is really cool, I know how to cook and draw, I’m good at chess and I think I am intelligent, so beauty is not something that I care too much about nowadays, I know I’m worth kindness even if I’m not pretty. 

I just wanted to make this blog for anyone that reads this and feels insecure, is okay, even if your not pretty (which you prolly are) you don’t owe beauty to anyone, believe me, the right people is gonna find u and treat you nicely, even that amazing relationship you don’t think you’ll have because your appearance, I also thought that and now I have had 3 serious relationships and many situationships once I was confident enough to meet people. 

So anyways guys, love y’all, be proud of yourselves