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I want someone really alike to me
To the point everything we have done are the same and our thoughts decisions past are the same , everything we like or potentially like are the same
Cant tell if this is so wrong but my criteria is literally always this because the second I feel like our thoughts arent the same , those arent even serious topics and only sometimes it is something I hate but I dont feel as close anymore when that happens
People say difference is good I mean it surely is , I think the reason I want is because I have never found someone exactly alike to me there is always some point of view different than mine , especially it pisses me off when someone tells things they probably dont thinkÂ
What are they exactly? If we had an exam and she says "I failed I hope I pass" and she gets a high grade, bro we know damn well it wasnt that bad and u are just lying for unknown reasons, I cant even tell why would that be and it makes me hate that person like I totally adore people who have achieved something but not this way, crying for a grade when u were the topper is a similar example. Or if someone is exactly fitting the beauty standarts (gender doesnt matter) and still can come with something like "I am chopped" if u are then show me an example, tell me one time u were actually bullied for your appearance or an actual flaw you can see in your body because this sounds stupid and being ugly is a big word yk, I would still get if they said im not good looking enough or smth like that but still it doesnt make sense and they are all lying for the reasons idk literally
It reminds me of that one natsuki poem, I kinda get disgusted when someone likes bugs too, or same happens when someone eats something I would puke if I ate with passion like idk I feel like for someone to actually understand me and be my soulmate they have to be exactly like me but only slightly different this was a yap bye 😇
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RedHousePainter
I think I’m almost the complete opposite, honestly. I tend to surround myself with people whom I consider intelligent and who share my fundamental political and moral convictions, but beyond that, they are all incredibly different from me, sometimes almost comically so. They have different interests, temperaments, backgrounds, experiences, and completely different ways of interpreting the world, and I think that’s precisely what makes those relationships interesting to me. There are obviously certain disagreements that reveal a genuine incompatibility in values, but outside of those, I don’t really need another person to be an extension of myself in order to feel understood by them.
I actually really value the intellectual friction that comes from being close to people whose minds operate differently from mine. Our perception of the world is inevitably constrained by our own experiences, environment, culture, and whatever circumstances happened to shape us, so another person can sometimes recognize an entire dimension of something that is basically invisible from where I’m standing. Even when I ultimately disagree with their conclusion, understanding the reasoning that brought them there can complicate or expand my own perspective. I think if everyone around me thought exactly as I did, eventually my relationships would become a kind of echo chamber where I’m constantly encountering variations of my own consciousness. I’d much rather have people who share my fundamental principles but still possess enough difference to challenge the limits of how I understand things.
Makes sense actually but different people are hard to talk for me because if our music taste the kind of things we watch our game taste and thoughts are different I feel like after some point we wont have anything left to do together, mostly when I had friend like those all the time it would be chatting about normal life stuff which gets boring after some time passes and I generally enjoy sharing my interests and them being interested, telling their thoughts too and as I said I dont mean someone that is me, but almost me
if that makes sense
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