ok so... wtf happened today

ugh.

I got into an argument w my grandma today n I'm ngl, I'm still fucking pissed.

Basically it was abt cleaning, cooking, housework, blah blah blah...

And apparently bc I'm a girl, I'm supposed to be the one doing all this stuff.

LIKE???

what does that even MEAN 😭

I don't even mind helping around the house. That's not even what I'm mad abt. I live here too. Ofc I'm gonna help.

But why does it have to be:

Why can't it just be:

Like boys have hands too 😭

A boy can wash a fucking plate. The plate isn't gonna explode.

And girls aren't born with some magical "clean the entire house" gene either 💀

Tbh THAT'S what pisses me off. Not the actual chores. The fucking expectation.

It's like I'm supposed to automatically accept this role just bc I was born a girl.

Sorry but I had to say it.

I wanna help my family bc I care abt them. I wanna learn to cook bc it's useful. I wanna clean bc, yk, living in a disgusting room would kinda suck.

But I don't want my whole idea of being a "good girl" to be based on how well I do housework.

And yeah... maybe I'm being dramatic.

Maybe tomorrow I'll look back at this n be like:

But rn?

And honestly, I'm allowed to be.

Being angry doesn't automatically make me a bad granddaughter.

Sometimes you're just pissed bc something really got under ur skin.

So yeah. That's my rant.

I'm gonna go listen to music n pretend this argument never happened.

...probably.