i need advice..big time 💔

so there’s this incoming freshman in my band class (I’m an incoming sophomore). he’s in my section but plays a different instrument (he plays tenor sax, I play alto sax). I’m starting to slowly develop feelings for him, and I wanna pursue him but I also gotta get to know him first. so far, he seems so uninterested (atleast over text, I see him during band practice and what not and he’s a bit more talkative then), and I’m the one always starting the conversation. he’s also a slow ish replier, so that makes things slightly worse. however, I’m starting to discover that me and him have things in common. I just don’t know how to keep talking to him (like have an actual conversation with him) and how I’m supposed to confess when the time comes 


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>Good Skepterk~ ;p

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As a kiiiinnndaaaaa person like that my advice is to back off when he looks nervous… but u can come back after basically any circumstance unless he tells u flip off or smthn… or, again, if its obvious hes nervous (the word uncomfortable can be used frfr but im a little like uncomfortable with people all the time so idk bdhsjansvsj)


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Nowhere Glam

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I like the same with some friend mine, i think i love him but he's so cold almost everytime but My advince is that You don't make any Big move, just wait, see how he answer to You, don't try to press hard because You can make him uncomforable or make yourself uncomforable, just wait and maybe try to think if You really love him or just like the idea You have of him or just His physic


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