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Lonely days

Hi spacehey user on my blog! <3

I feel like I'm normal in the days, and i barely speak to my friends.

 My friends is my highscool friends, and I am feeling sad for one friend who finished highschool and we would speak just a little.

My other friends are my class mate and they are great, but i feel we are not fully conecting to each other and they watch kids movie in the evening, and I wanna go outside and be silly. I dont hate them, but i feel like I am not in the right place (but i never really felt like that).

What can I do?

(No, i can't socialize in irl, I tried and got many insta friends but few of them replied to me, and who replied wasn't in that talking mood ig...)


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Hi, I know this might be the silliest question in the world, but have you tried talking to your friends about it? Or have you tried and they didn’t even care? I understand how you feel out of place with your friends, but really, it all comes down to communication. Of course, you might all have different tastes, but you all need to agree on things you can all do when you’re together.
As for Instagram friendships… Unfortunately, that’s the ‘price you pay’ (if you know what I mean) for having online friendships; they might be the best people ever, but they live far away or take ages to reply, and so on. Personally, I think this ‘Instagram chat vibe’ is because you’re not very sociable. I think the best thing you can do is step out of your comfort zone, both online and in person, and maybe that way you’ll find people just like you. I know it’s really hard, but you have to try.
Btw, why are you not very sociable? If you don’t want to answer, that’s fine.
Good luck, koxyka! XD


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