women and their boyfriends

im honestly so sick of my female friends complaining about their boyfriends now that i got out of a bad relationship. i never noticed how much i SHOWED i loved my bf more than he did, even if we loved eachother the same in our hearts. so now its so easy for me to see these boys do NOTT give a single shit about them, and its even worse when i tell them to leave them (FOR GOOD REASONS) and they just refuse to. like yeah its ur life but then dont fucking come to me w that bs. 

im ngl to u, my BEST FRIEND was the worst. she deadass never told me anything good abt him, and the 2 times shes ever cried to me was bc of him. for ex., when her cat was actively fucking dying she called him to comfort her and he asked if she could wait for him to finish his videogame. another ex., hed call her but immediately fall asleep after work knowing damn well she enjoys a chat before bed, but will stay up late after work playing videogames w friends. js saw txt receipts of him falling asleep as she was talking on the phone .. this shit has been going on for a year and she constantly wants to leave him but begged him back when they did break up .... are you fucking kidding me ................ some ppl dont wanna be helped but i cant have that , sorry. i distanced myself from her because of our religion differences made me wonder if she should be my BEST friend, but seeing her go crazy on her insta notes abt her bf made me realize i dont have to give her the same advice again AND AGAIN.

heres advice for you gals. sigh. very deep sigh. never show more love than him, ever. ever. ever. thats what makes them realize you wouldnt leave him first, so that hed "keep" you forever. if your relationship had more cons than pros, get out immediately. think of it like quick sand, why tf would u stay and get urself stuck into some dumb shit?  genuinely, what the fuck makes you believe you can change a man? the only person you can change is yourself. whatll happen is youll meet a guy usually better than the last, and even if they arent, theres always gonna be another guy waiting in line. love yourself more than any man, and youll be a fabulous single woma who likes to talk to men but drop them the moment their true, evil colors show. jersey girl out.