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Hey dudes, so my mental health is just gone to shit the past few months... no it's not due to my new job, I love it there, but more or less around friends and potential partners. Some call it hyper sensitivity, others say hormones and lack of proper sleep, or being an empath idfk.
Point I'm getting across is, I suck at being with people and even though I'm gender fluid and bisexual, I'm leaning into trying to date girls more. Most men are cunts, and just keep hurting me and close gal pals of mine sooooo time for a break. More tacos less sausage rolls...
I don't trust dating apps, soooo Fetlife it is I guess, idk =/
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NCNH
Sounds like an unenviable position to be in.
Try as one might, there is plenty of lived experience to be sure that there is no way to make others more aware, thoughtful or considerate.
There are some good Cis men out there, but you are absolutely correct in identifying how the bar of standards is set so low, it's statistically rare in finding any who 'get' it.
Good to hear that you are trying to engage. Being social is a series of hit-or-miss that one may find sustainable interaction.
Some thoughts:
* With age comes enough time for reflection and lived situations for understanding how things actually fit together. (Unless a person has never had to question their own selfworth in a society that's trying to erase their personal identity.)
* With age comes the ability to stop caring about what other people think of you.
* With age comes less impact of how what other people think about you is able to influence your opportunities or position.
These things start happening at 30.
By 40, you gain full powers.
By 50, you are able to instruct others on what matters.
By 100, you are heralded as a leader.
By 200, people start to wonder if you're an otherworldly being.
Last day of March is Transgender day of visibility. If there's a time for you to be seen, it's now... both IRL and metaphorically. GenderFluid IS Trans, and anyone who tries to exclude you is blind to why the day exists.