my thoughts on obsession and all that

i've been waiting to watch this movie since the first trailer dropped but haven't gotten the chance to until today and let me just say, wow i fucking hate bear. now because its such a popular movie and since im on social media i of course knew about some stuff i porbably wouldn't have even guessed going into the movie. like for one the fact that nikki and ian were hooking up i found that out a few weeks ago on twitter and that sarah was going to die. the rest i was in for the ride with. 

now watching it at first i wasn't sure how to feel about it or bear for the first few minutes like okay its a good movie and bear is a fucking idiot but thats stupidly all i had a few minutes in. by the end tho, i dont think i've ever needed a character to die more than i needed bear to fucking kill himself. at first i was thinking okay well its not like he knew the one willow wish was gonna fucking work he just did it cause he was frustrated so fair if he's in a bit of denial at first about whether that worked or not, but it felt weird that he knew nikki was acting weird and sure she gave him a fake reason but he took that and when she kissed him, he kissed her back instead of like a normal human being thinking she'd going through shit i dont wanna take advantage of her at her lowest which okay whatever i can somewhat look over. then this stupid guy finds out it did infact work and you think oh maybe he'll actually try to help the real nikki out of it, but no it cuts to a scene of him basically raping nikki, and yes i said raping because thats what it is. 

curry does such a well job of making bear his pathetic guy who is kinda cute in an awkward way at first but he's no different from any guy online who cant get a girl to go out with him, and to make it worse a girl does like him, sarah. i get he doesn't have to go for srah but it very fucking clear that nikki saw him as a brother which is confirmed she did and nothing else. so for him to force nkki into his slave girlfriend instead of just looking at sarah for something, god i physically cant stand him.

im probably not getting my words out write im kinda just typing but bear disgusts me so much. i hate the scene when fake nikki is sleeping and real nikki slips through and is begging bear to kill her and bear hears her begging and he takes it as if she begging to die cause it bad being with him, she tells him it's never been her with him to begging with and as shes crying he just walks away...omg. he says something like "is it that bad to me with me?" like bear go fucking die please. in the next scene he's talking to sarah and you can tell that before nikki gets there that he was so gonna kiss sarah and mf when i tell you i was getting upset, you force someone to be obsessed with you and when you cant take it you find someone new, he was playing with both nikki and sarah be so for real. 

i read a comment on a reaction video to the movie saying how he didn't try taking his life to save nikki he did it cause he couldn't keep going, even in the end he only thought of himself. for half of the movie he knows he can stop the wish by killing himself and he doesn't but instead of doing anything else he keeps "datingt" her, and acts as iff everything is nikki's fault, but right when shit gets tough he wants to off himself because shit aint working out, he wasn't doing it for nikki or for sarah or stupid ian no he was doing it for himself and of course like the pussy he is he tries throwing up the pills he took. 

he literaly ruined nikki's life with one stupid, selfish wish. im glad he dies but he deserved far worse then that ending.