Do NOT be with someone who drains You

Long time no see (or should I say "write").

Hey! I wasn't active because of my personal problems, but I'm back now!! I guess... It was difficult for me to enjoy my hobbies during my relationship. Thinking about them was exhausting too. I decided that I need to break up. It wasn't easy decision. We were together for 2 years. I won't explain further, why we broke up, but I'm glad it happen. Ironically, I am happier.

He found new girl (week after the breakup lol?) and I hope that he is doing well. Although... She is constantly checking out literally, EVERYTHING, every story and every shit that I'm posting on my Instagram ToT. Idk why she is doing it, but for me it is kinda weird. I knew she had a crush on my bf, when we were still together. I told him that and he said that he could never be with her...

...

LMAO

I mean, I wish them good, but I don't think that we will be friends. Also, me and her was mutuals on IG, during my relationship. She unadded me from her account, but kept me as an following. When I noticed that she is still followng me and I don"t follow her I decided to remove her as well lol. I mean, why you following you bf's ex?? Like, okay, if we were friends or something that's cool, but literally we didn't have any connection and YOU LITERALLY REMOVED ME FIRST, BITCH? Should've keep me when you could XDD

but like..

I didn't like her, I was feeling weird vibe from her when we first meet. I'm not mad, cuz he is now with her, I seriously don't get why he lied and told me not to worry abt her and week after breakup he's with her. Yeah..

ANYWAYS! I got so much support from my friends and I'm really freaking thankful. I met new cool ppl, new friends AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: my mental and physical health got better. I think that this was healing and generally I got my spark back. This sounds corny lol, but that's true.

If you have hard time with your partner - talk about it. If nothing changes, don't be scared to breakup. If you're not sure, seek advise from your friends first. Usually, the person who is observing might be more objective about the situation. Have boundaries. You don't have to tolerate everything your partner does just because you are in a relationship together. I wish I listened to my friends earlier tbh.

You can comment on my situation or share your expieriene in the comment if you'd like to.

Bye bye!!