A BIIIIGGGG relationship update....

So I have a bf now. It has been this guy that I have been crushing over on and off since the beginning. You know the guy who did not know my name. Well, he is my bf now. :) I'm so happy I'm with him. I was scared he was going to be this big macho guy but he is really sweet. He is patient and understanding and funny. I hit a gold mine. We got together May 30 2026. My mother does not like him at ALL. Mainly because we were intimate and he isn't crazy smart. He tries but only during football season and had iffy grades. So far I have received 3 passive aggressive comments to about our relationship. I'm gonna make a list and add on later.

1. Comments about me being a single mother by the time I should be started college

2. There was this male friend of mine who was being a little too touchy and flirty to me. I have tried to friend zoned him before by telling him about my crushes and how I don't like being touch by my male friends. I know he didn't mean anything meticulous by it but it was still uncomfortable. My mom told ME not to break his heart because he is a sweet boy. Bruh She has been making these comments for the past few months about how much she likes this guy and how he is such a sweet heart.  And I have told her at least twice that me and him don't connect like that and he is too touchy for my liking.

3. This comment is what ticked me off, though. This is the straw that broke the camels back. I was chilling in my room and I hear my mother  walking down the hall. She is coming to give me an ad from a college and saying how she wants me to bring home a strong man. My little sister says, "But what about Vivi's bf?" and as she is coming in my room she says, "Oh, come on. Vivi and him won't last forever." SHE SAYS THIS IN MY ROOM WHILE I'M LAYING ON MY BED. Then she scoffs it off and smiles. I am befuddled because who ACTUALLY says that to their daughters face. I would understand why a parent my think that way but why would you say it to your child's face. YOU KNOW YOU'RE GOING TO HURT THEIR FEELINGS! 

But this is a good thing. She has fueled my desire to prove her wrong. She is certain that me and my love won't have a good future together. She is dead set on us falling apart. She believes I am ruining my life by being with him. I am going to prove her wrong by being successful in every aspect of my life. I don't know how me and him will end up, but I'm going to try to make it last as long as possible whether we break up in 8 months or be together til we are 95. I know people change. Our futures may not be compatible in 2 years and he may want to split ways, but I'm going to try my hardest to be with him forever. I am going to work hard in school and take care of my body. Kurt is a funny and caring man, who I would like to spend the rest of my life with. I'm going to be successful and happy with Kurt whether she likes it or not.