Relationship Advices

You don't have to take my advice but I sure do recommend it. 

Communicate Clearly ~ Communication is very important in a relationship. You shouldn't feel uncomfortable or unsafe in any relationship, if you ever do then you should share that feeling with them to see how to make you feel better. It won't be fun to be in a relationship with someone who makes you uncomfortable or unsafe. If they don't listen to you the first time then maybe remind them, but if you have to constantly remind then.. then, baby, I'ma hold you hand for this, they aren't the one for you.

Trust ~ You should be able to trust your partner with barely any problems. If you are worried about anything then always communicate it, please. Trust is built with honesty and time so don't rush it, just like you don't rush love.

Have your own life ~ Since you have a partner that doesn't mean that your whole like depends on them. You also have your friends, hobbies, family, and personal goals that also matter in your life. Also know that your partner also has a life too, so don't always expect them to have time for you.

Respect boundaries ~ Boundaries are super important to respect. You don't want to always get up in their space of buisness all the time. If they have made something clear to you that they don't or do want, then respect it and let it be. You also have your boundaries too so make sure you share your boundaries with them.

Solve problems together ~ It will never be "you vs your partner" it will be "Both yall vs the problem" Period.

Don't lose yourself ~ Remember, they loved you because you were you, so don't change yourself just for them. If they don't love you for being you then they can't accept you the way you are naturally. Don't let anyone change you, even if you love them.

Don't let it be lust ~ Lust isn't love. Unless you just don't want love and all lust then you do you.. but if you are looking for love, then find someone who loves you and someone you love.. 

Remember, no relationship is perfect.